Learning How to Deepthroat a Cock

Anyone can give a blowjob.  It’s one of the basic skills every slut needs to have.  Being able to deepthroat, however, is a special skill, one that is highly prized, and one that elevates your slut status to a much higher level.  For most people this ability doesn’t come naturally, though, so I thought it’d be nice to have an article that explains one way you can learn to take a cock all the way into your throat.

Disclaimer

Be careful when you first start trying this stuff. You *must* take this information and proceed *slowly* to keep from hurting your throat or tripping your gag reflex and vomiting! Just be careful and take your time.  You’re not going to become the skilled deepthroatress in a few short minutes.  This will take some time, and if you’re patient and can actually learn to do it, you’ll be rewarded greatly (as will your future penis-possessing partners).

Required & Suggested Items

You will need something to deep throat. I *highly* recommend a flexible, near-lifelike dildo. If you can get one that has the “realistic skin” or “realistic feel,” it will make the practice much more….realistic for you (though they do tend to be expensive)! The dildo will more or less act like a real cock will when you try to DT it. The length you’d need is up to you. I’d suggest no less than 6 inches – the one I’ve always used is a little over 8 inches. The average mouth is about 3.5 inches deep, and the average penis length is about 5 to 6 inches long, so even with a 6 inch dildo, you should be okay. I wanted to make sure I could handle anything that came my way, though, and elected to go with a longer one. 😛

You can use a peeled banana or hot dog wiener BUT you must be careful not to let it break off and get lodged in your throat! If a piece does break off, you will swallow it, but you’ll end up coughing and hacking all over the place and probably end your little practice session.  There’s also always the possibility you might choke on a piece of something that gets lodged into your throat, so I generally don’t recommend using these things.

Of course, if you have a live penis with an owner willing to let you spend all kinds of time practicing, then so much the better!  Most guys won’t stay hard for the length of time you’ll need to practice this, though.

Lubrication: You must make sure your dildo is lubricated before you try to push it into the back of your throat. I use saliva – you just have to spend a lot of time with it in your mouth to get it all juiced up. Most water-based lubes like AstroGlide are edible and are safe for ingestion if you want to use those (and they have little noticeable taste).  You should stay away from flavored lubes because they make you want to swallow while you have the dildo in your mouth, causing your tongue to rub off the lube, etc.  Albolene is also a good choice.  That’s right, the makeup remover. Get it at Walgreens.  That stuff is pretty popular with the adult industry since it has no taste and becomes pretty much invisible when it is applied to………whatever.

Regardless of what you use to begin with, you’ll notice once you start getting the dildo into the back of your throat, it will become coated with very thick, mucusy looking saliva (if you’ve watched much deepthroating porn, you’ve no doubt seen the long, thick strands of this stuff coming out of the slut’s mouth when she pulls the cock out).  That is the throat’s natural lubricant and the ultimate goal is to get your cock substitute coated with this material.  You just need something to get started, however, so using AstroGlide, Albolene, or a good dose of saliva is usually necessary for most folks.

Throat Spray: Buy some aerosol throat spray – the kind you’d use if you had a sore throat. You can spray this into the back of your throat and it will deaden it somewhat. This will make things a little easier as well.  This will make practicing a little easier at the outset, but you should eventually get to the point where you don’t need this.  You can’t stop sucking a guy’s cock every few minutes to reapply throat spray.

The Gag Reflex

The “gag reflex” is your throat’s way of trying to prevent you from forcing something down it when you swallow. You encounter problems when whatever you are sticking in your throat won’t cooperate and go on down! The little gag mechanism starts freaking out and that’s when you get the spastic feeling and………other problems. The biggest obstacle to learning how to DT is to defeat this.

Positions

The best position for practicing DT technique is any position where you can lean your head back and make your throat straight. I learned how to take a cock by lying on my back on my bed, with my head hanging backwards over the edge. You can also sit in a chair, or on a couch, with your head leaning back as well. It really doesn’t matter how you position yourself for practicing, so long as you can get your throat as straight as possible.

Correct Deepthroating Position
Correct position for deep throatfucking

Correct position for deep throatfucking

Practicing

You learn to overcome your gag reflex by going down on the dildo as far as you can, relaxing the back of your mouth/entrance to your throat, and taking it until you just feel the beginning of that gag, and holding it there until the feeling subsides. This may take a minute or two. If it doesn’t go away, withdraw the dildo and try again after a minute or two of rest.  Then try it again, this time going a little further if you can, and repeat. As I said, this may take some time and practice and you won’t end up after your first session being able to DT an 8-inch cock. As you’re holding the dildo in your throat, don’t forget to keep breathing! The natural tendency is to hold your breath while you do this and, of course, that will begin to suck after a minute or two. 😉

As you move the dildo back further into your throat, flatten the back of your tongue just as you would when the doctor asks you to go “aahhhh” when he’s examining your throat. This will cause your tongue to push out, cause the back of your mouth to open wider, and will allow you to help counter your gag reflex as well. Slide the dildo along the top of your tongue. Hopefully, you’re using the recommended dildo or something that is relatively flexible, and it will follow the contour of your throat. Again, when you feel the urge to gag, pause for a few seconds and let your body overcome that, and then press forward.

At some point (hopefully), you’ll get the dildo far enough back that it will actually get to the entrance of your throat. At this point, you will probably feel some resistance. Try using your tongue to help pull the dildo into your throat, almost as if you were trying to swallow. Extend your tongue a little bit and pull it back in, taking the dildo with it. You’ll also need to try to concentrate on relaxing your throat itself to allow the dildo to actually get into your throat.  Once you get it that far, begin practicing taking it that deep, pulling it back out, and going back down on it that deep again, etc – just as if you were fucking your own face with the dildo. I eventually bought one of those dildos with a suction cup on it so I could stick it to something solid and practice going all the way down on it.  If you have the funds to invest in such a thing, you might wish to consider that as well.

Once you get the hang of this, then you’ll be ready to move on to a real cock!

Another note on breath control: DON’T take a deep breath before you push the dildo/penis back into your throat. Taking in a deep breath decreases the amount of penis (or w/e) that you can take into your throat, believe it or not. Breathe normally, and stop just before the dildo actually goes into your throat and you begin the swallowing motions with your tongue.

The Real Deal

At this point, you’re going to want to try deepthroating a real, live cock. Make *sure* he understands the first few times you do this, you might be gagging and coughing and that, the more he cooperates with you on the front end, the better it will be for him in the long run.

My position suggestion for those new to the technique is going to be based on which direction his cock curves.  Most guys’ cocks curve upward.  If that’s the case, get on top of him in a 69 position.  His cock will now be curved in the same direction as your throat.  You can practice going down on it and should be able to get it all the way into your throat.  Though it’s going to be hard for him to do, ask him not to stimulate you while you’re practicing this; you need your full concentration on his cock and what you’re doing!

If your guy’s cock has a downward curve, then the best position to practice is generally on your knees in the “natural” cock sucking position.  His cock will curve in the same direction as your throat when you’re kneeling before him and, again, you should be able to get it all the way into your throat.

If the cock you’re working with sticks straight out or has some other direction of curve to it, your best bet is usually to try the first position (69), since cocks will bend much easier toward the abdomen than in a downward direction.

Once you’ve mastered this, the next step is to learn to deepthroat in other positions, and, eventually, to allow yourself to be face or throat fucked.  I’ll explain how to do this in a future article.  Getting comfortable going all the way down on a cock may take several weeks or even months, so just be patient.  And practice, practice, practice!!!

As I mentioned above, the saliva in the back of your throat is somewhat thicker than what you have in the front of it. As your boy’s cock pulls out of your mouth, you’ll notice the thicker drool dribbling off of it and forming those little spit trails back to your mouth. Many guys really get off on seeing this, so don’t be concerned about the fact that it is happening.

As with any BJ, make sure your boy lets you know when he’s getting ready to blow. One of the real advantages of deepthroating is that you can push his cock deep into your throat while he cums, allowing the cum to shoot right down your throat. (Again, this will probably take some getting used to). Wag your tongue back and forth across his dick while he’s cumming. This, combined with the swallowing motion made by your throat will provide the continuous sensation needed to ensure his orgasm is complete. With experience, you’ll be able to feel it in his cock when he’s getting ready to cum, and you’ll be able to recognize this while you’re throat-fucking him as well.

As you become more comfortable with everything, you can eventually let him take the lead in deciding how deep to go. This requires a great deal of trust, though. A lot of guys have problems controlling how deep they go when they start cumming, and it is a natural tendency to want to shove it as deep as possible when that happens, so be prepared for that. You can also begin to add other things to the mix while you’re going down on him – like playing with his nuts, sticking a finger in his ass (if he’s up for that), etc.

The more you practice and try this, the easier it will become for you. I read one good analogy of someone putting contacts in for the first time. You flinch and blink a lot the first few times you do it, but eventually, you get to the point where it becomes second nature to put them in and take them out. Deepthroating is pretty much the same way. Just bide your time and allow things to progress at their own speed!

Once you’ve mastered the art of deepthroating, you can move on to the more aggressive throat fucking lesson.

TheSlut

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