Gang Bangs, Group Sex, and Orgies

There are a lot of terms used in the sex and porn worlds these days that are just outlandishly misused and misappropriated – some for dramatic effect and some due to an honest misunderstanding of what they really mean. A few have multiple meanings or have meanings that are nebulous enough that they can be used legitimately in a variety of situations, though.

So, in the interest of sex education for the masses, here are some of the more commonly used/misused terms and their legitimate meanings. This is a running post, by the way. As more terms are suggested, I’ll include them and update the page.

Threesome: Self explanatory – sex among three people. It can be three people of the same gender, or of differing genders. One person watching, but not participating, is NOT a threesome, by the way.

Spit Roast: Threesome arrangement where one person is in a horizontal position (on hands and knees, typically) and being penetrated on each end by someone with a phallus. Sometimes referred to as a pig roast.

Foursome: A foursome involves, oddly enough, four people. These four people have to swap it up and mix it up so that everyone is having sex with every other person (more or less) for it to be a true foursome. Otherwise you just have two couples having sex in the presence of one another, or a threesome with one person watching, etc.

Group Sex: Group sex is a rather generic term for sex involving more than two people. Standard use, however, refers to any group of five or more engaged in sex, in any combination (there are specific terms for sex involving three and four people as is noted above). Generally, group sex implies that everyone is having sex with everyone else in some way.

Orgy: An orgy is sex involving five or more people, and the term is often used interchangeably with “group sex.” The term “orgy,” however, implies a much more unconstrained, wanton, lustful sexual experience – something more than just a group of five+ people sticking tongues on one another or body parts into orifices, but rather an almost ritualistic exercise of sexual abandon. In fact, the term originates from the Greek orgia (plural), or “the rites,” referring to ritualized sex undertaken as a component of a worship exercise.

Daisy Chain: A daisy chain is a sequence of three or more individuals simultaneous receiving and performing oral sex on one another such that A is giving oral to B, B is giving oral to C, and C is giving oral to A, etc., in one big circle, or chain.

Gang Bang: A gang bang where several people (usually men) have sex with a single individual (typically a female) known as the “center,” but not with one another. This generally involves anywhere from five or more men performing sex one after the other or simultaneously with the center (two men does not constitute a “gang” by any stretch of the imagination). The term “reverse gang bang” is sometimes used to refer to one man being fucked simultaneously or in sequence by several women.

Blow Bang: A blow bang is where the center(s) simply gives blowjobs to all of the males that are present, one after the other, in random order. Generally this isn’t a sequential thing where the center finishes one off before moving on, but rather the center moves from one to another randomly until the guys begin cumming. (Is there an equivalent for someone performing oral on a sequence of females?)

Bukkake: A bukkake is where a series of men ejaculate onto a single individual, usually a woman, and typically her face and upper chest. The term comes from the Japanese word for “to splash water.” The practice became popular because of Japanese porn laws which require the pixelation of genitals. In order to demonstrate that orgasms had occurred (or were occurring), producers videotaped the results of ejaculation onto the actresses face and body.

Gokkun: A gokkun is where the center of a gang bang or blow bang allows all of the males to ejaculate into her mouth and she swallows every load. The men can ejaculate into her mouth individually or collectively, or they can do so into a cup or other container from which the woman drinks the semen once everyone has made their contribution. Someone apparently coined this term based on the sound one makes when swallowing a large quantity of semen.

Blow bangs and gang bangs can result in a bukkake or gokkun if so desired.

MILF: Acronym for “Mom/Mother I’d Like to Fuck. A MILF is generally a 30 y/o+ sexually attractive woman who’s had a child (though sometimes whether or not she’s had a child is irrelevant). Marital status is irrelevant.

ATM (some times A2M): Ass-to-mouth oral sex. The male penetrates the other person anally, withdraws his cock and is orally serviced by the receptive partner without cleaning the cock. There’s a corollary term known as ATOGM, which stands for “ass to other girl’s mouth,” which refers to with the withdrawal of a cock from one girl’s ass and another girl sucking him off.

Snowballing: Cum swapping. Typically, a male will ejaculate into someone’s mouth, and that person will kiss another (perhaps the one who ejaculated, but not necessarily) and they’ll swap the cum back and forth.

Cream Pie: A load of semen deposited into a person’s vagina or ass (as opposed to on a face, chest, ass, etc.).

Air-tight: A woman being penetrated simultaneously by three cocks (anally, vaginally, and orally) is said to be “air tight.” Less often used to refer to a male being penetrated simultaneously by two cocks (anally and orally). This is also occasionally referred to as vapor lock.

Three-Hole Slut: A woman who allows penetrative sex in all three orifices (vagina, anus, and oral cavity).

Fluffer: A person responsible for keeping the male talent erect (through oral sex, generally) in between shoots in porn or during a gang bang when they’re not actively engaged with the center.

D.P. or Double Penetration: Simultaneous penetration by two cocks, typically in the vagina and anus, though it can be used to describe penetration of the mouth and either the vagina or anus as well (which itself is sometimes referred to as a spit-roast – see above).

T.P. or Triple Penetration: Simultaneous penetration by three cocks, typically in the mouth, vagina, and anus, though it may refer to multiple penetrations of the same hole by more than one cock, so long as three are involved in toto.

Relationship Constructs

Aside from the more common forms of relationships, there are some that defy common tradition. These include:

Open Relationship: A relationship in which the partners are allowed to engage in sexual activities with others. When undertaken within the context of a marriage, it is said to be an open marriage. Those in an open relationship differ from swingers in that swingers engage in sexual activities with others as a couple, generally, or attend functions designed to bring together people for the purposes of sex. Those in an open relationship generally engage in sex with others singularly and on a (relatively) random basis, perhaps even without the other partner knowing. It is possible to be in an open relationship AND be a swinger as well, however.

Polyamory: A relationship construct in which multiple people are involved. This typically takes the form of three or four people (or more) in a committed relationship to one another. The relationship is closed in that they do not permit or seek sexual relations with anyone outside their group. From the Greek, poly, many, and amor, love.

Cuckold: A cuckold is a man with a wife who has sex with other men, with her husband’s knowledge and consent. Cuckoldry is an acknowledged fetish if the husband uses it to achieve his own sexual satisfaction. The woman is said to be a “hot wife” (though a hot wife may also be a wife who is shared among two or more men with the husband’s consent or at his urging).

Sexual Orientation

Bisexual: Sexual orientation characterized by sexual attraction or desire for people of both biological genders, male and female, not necessarily in equal proportions.

Pansexual: Sexual orientation characterized by sexual attraction or desire for people regardless of their gender identity or gender presentation. Often referred to less commonly as omnisexual or polysexual. This term differs from bisexuality in that someone who claims pansexuality generally does not recognize the common binary male/female gender identity construct or seeks people who express outside of what is commonly seen as male or female .

Asexuality: Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction or sexual desire for anyone, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. The specific causes of asexuality are unknown.

If you have any other terms that you feel need to be defined a bit more succinctly, indicate them in comments below. I’ll add them into this list as we go along.

TheSlut

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